tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2773511943855224008.post3368996753031909391..comments2022-12-13T03:40:43.818-08:00Comments on What Alex Writes...: Are your standards too high?Alexandria B.http://www.blogger.com/profile/09195017426667076203noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2773511943855224008.post-71308292028664231192012-11-10T17:35:58.808-08:002012-11-10T17:35:58.808-08:00I wrote a similar article recently. My reply to th...I wrote a similar article recently. My reply to this would be the article I've written which could be read here: http://ldcarter.com/the-fallacy-of-searching-for-the-perfect-mate/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02255729148662445957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2773511943855224008.post-13153700074199697162012-07-28T11:54:13.039-07:002012-07-28T11:54:13.039-07:00I read your checklist with someone in mind and he ...I read your checklist with someone in mind and he has literally all of what you listed.....yet he has no interest in me aside from sex. no dates, no time spent together, no "hanging out" , just sex and only sex. <br /><br />my point is, standards are one thing, but how a man treats you, what he does for you, and how he makes you feel are what matters.<br /><br />good post though, cuz i'm destined to be single tooNichole Naomihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15352475418409709018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2773511943855224008.post-23624126945589565892012-07-09T18:24:07.803-07:002012-07-09T18:24:07.803-07:00I think your list is very practical. And I get thi...I think your list is very practical. And I get this all the time, that I'm never going to find a man because I'm too picky and I have extremely high standards. Which I know isn't true, I have the basic standards like yourself...minus the weed smoking. That doesn't bother me unless the man smokes 3-4x a day. Occasional recreation use is fine to me. But other than that, I just need a smart man, who is funny, taller than me when I have on heels, exercises, has a job, car, doesn't live with his parents, ambitious. That's about it...but for some reason, that's hard to find.Laneé https://www.blogger.com/profile/15141081687917913503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2773511943855224008.post-11435915227560696962012-05-23T15:27:00.027-07:002012-05-23T15:27:00.027-07:00Those are not bad standards, I actually under most...Those are not bad standards, I actually under most of them except for a few. I have a few standards that I think are required: 1. The ability to have an interest in someone even if the person isn't your type, 2. The ability to listen and hold a conversation and 3. Have some knowledge or interest on what the person does or ambition they have.Mike Anoreply@blogger.com