Wednesday, October 6, 2010

The Four Types of Friends...

I've noticed that most of my blog posts are a bit serious in nature so now is the time that I write about something a little more fun. This past weekend I was home alone most of the time and when Sunday was coming to an end I thought to myself, "I need more friends." It's no surprise that it's much more difficult for females to become and remain friends than it is for males. It's a sad but obvious fact. The friends that I do have, I do not see that often. This could be because I'm not the most social of people and I'm content laying in my bed on a Friday night while doing nothing. In fact, napping is my favorite pastime. When there is an event that I'd like to attend, it's fairly simple for me to decide which friend I'd like to bring along because I've managed to categorize my small group of friends. Below you'll see my list of the four types of friends that one may have.

1. The Best Friend - A best friend is typically a person that you've known for many years. This person knows all about you and vice versa. The two of you have fun doing numerous things together. You would do anything for this person and they are like family. A person that has more than three "best friends" likely overuses the term or is extremely friendly.

2. The Multi-Purpose Friend - This friend is the friend that can go anywhere and likes to do anything with you. Whether at a restaurant or a concert, you and this friend are bound to have a good time. Multi-purpose friends are like the perfect pair of black pumps. They can be worn to work or the club. I'm not saying that you can wear your friends, but I'm sure you get my drift. These types of friends are fun to be around and the difference between them and a best friend is likely the amount of time that you've known them.

3. The Acquaintance - An acquaintance is the most common of all friend types. This person is nice and fun to be around, but you do not see them that often. You've either become acquainted through a mutual friend, school, or some other random activity. Acquaintances are the most likely to annoy you seeing as though they do not know you very well. It is best to hang out with acquaintances sporadically until the two of you know each other better. In some instances an acquaintance can become a multi-purpose friend.

4. The Socialite - Lastly, the socialite/ party-goer is the friend that is only useful at clubs or other high-energy social events. This person enjoys partying more than most people and unfortunately they're not good for much else. This type of friend does not typically engage themself in intellectual conversations and their knowledge doesn't extend beyond the club or the opposite sex. The advantage to this type of friend is that they ALWAYS know what fun events are happening.

Please remember that these are just my thoughts. There may be more types or perhaps fewer. Do you agree with what you see above? Is there something that my list is missing?

9 comments:

  1. Love this post! Very accurate!

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  2. LOL @ the comment about someone with more than three best friends. So true.

    Another "friend" I can think of is the "frenemy." You know, the one who you don't really like, and who really doesn't like you...but for some reason you two still hang out from time to time. I have drastically limited my contact with "frenemies" in recent months.

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  3. Pretty cool...There is some others like the way Tyler Perry describe friends like a tree: some are deep-rooted, some are like branches and some are like leaves. The deep-rooted ones are like the best friends you described they are there no matter what, and the branches which are somewhat strong but when it gets tough and you try leaning on them they break and the leaves are seasonal they are there just as long as the season is good and when the season changes then they fall.

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  4. The acquaintance is indeed the most common friend but Yea, you forgot mention the frenemy

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  5. Yes the good old "frenemy"...The one you try to build up...but whose insecurities prevent them from being your friend with no salt! It's like a bad marriage...you stay because you've known the person for so long...Well that's why I stayed at the time...

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  6. I'm either lucky or blind. I don't have any frenemys ya'll... At least I don't think I do. Thanks to all for reading!

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  7. The only one that applies to me would be the best friend. Thank God, because that seems to be the only one I actually like from that list.

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  8. this is such an insightful post.... i def agree.

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